Add okras, salt and water to pot and bring to boil
When okras boil, turn down heat to insure water doesn't boil over, and let simmer for 5 minutes
Strain okras into bowl, reserving all water
Set pot off stove and add half the water from okras back to pot, mixi in cornmeal with cou-cou stick and pressing to the side of pot until ball forms. Add more water if needed for ball to form.
Return pot onto stove on a low heat, pouring a small amount of the liquid to stop from burning
When bubbles form in pot, incorporate liquid into the ball of cornmeal, making sure to form back into ball
Add half the okras and incorporate
Pour water onto ball and leave until more bubbles form on the bottom
Repeat steps until all the okras are incorporated and cou-cou is cooked
If okra water remains in bowl, transfer to other jug but do not throw away
Scoop out amount of cou-cou you want into bowl and shake, making sure it hits side of bowl. Flip to get a more perfect round shape
Serve by making a small indent into the top of your cou-cou ball, and add your sweet potato and gravy
Enjoy!